“My future partner must be like this and have that” but are you working on yourself?


Yes, it is great to know what you want in your future partner but are you working on being all that is on your list?

I was discussing with my colleague and friend, Nnenna. I don’t exactly remember how the conversation led to relationships and how it’s important to know what we want in our partner but also to be the kind of person we want for our partner.

I found this insightful because as much as I have been praying for the kind of man I want, if i am going to be honest with you, I don’t put so much effort to become all of the things on my list.

I also realised i should pray God moulds me into the woman that he wants me to be (whoever that is). My list should also be not be carnal. Yes, it is important he has a job or owns his business but i should pray for someone God fearing, kind and honest amongst other things and not just about money.

What do you think?

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Love, Dating and Marriage


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  1. I totally agree with you on this.
    Most times we are so busy making demands that we fail to work on meeting those demands ourselves.

    This is a really nice post Biola, keep up the good work.

  2. Hey Biola, I nominated you for the ‘Blogger Recognition Award’ here. You can read my own award post here https://ihuomao.wordpress.com/2017/05/31/finally-got-a-blogger-recognition-award/

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